Grief is a deeply personal process. But eventually, we're quite likely to consider the possibility of romance again. Our experts explain why this isn't always easy. Losing someone we love is one of the hardest things we have to face in life. But eventually, once we're ready, it's highly likely we'll consider the possibility of finding love again. And this can happen at any age.
Widows: Getting Your Kids On Board With The Dating Game
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My current boyfriend was shocked when, after we first made love, I told him that all I wanted in a relationship at the time was a "friends with benefits" situation. It had been a year and eight months since my husband had died; my sex drive had recovered, but my heart was still hibernating. I'd been my husband George's caregiver as he'd succumbed to cancer. Sex hadn't been a part of my life for a long time. I was too worried about him to think of much else. I felt like I had no sexuality.
Moving on after someone dies: 7 tips for dating again
After having been married, possibly for many years, and going through the trauma and grief that comes with the death of a spouse, widows and widowers may find dating daunting. When is the right time to start dating again? Should one date exclusively or date several people at the same time, and should it be casual or serious? There are many right answers to these questions, and it all comes down to what makes the widow or widower comfortable. Just make sure that you can honor your spouse and still be emotionally prepared for this new chapter of your life.
WHEN Paul McCartney announced last month that he had split with his wife, Heather Mills, the talk around the coffee cart was all about what caused the breakup. Was she too demanding? Did the friction with his children doom them? And why on earth didn't he get a prenuptial agreement?